tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post5068242127654949180..comments2023-08-01T01:54:12.364-07:00Comments on Band me Baby!: Long time, no postTheresahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07794746954511347596noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-37856819049876083482010-06-09T11:10:03.642-07:002010-06-09T11:10:03.642-07:00[sorry, behind on blogs]
CONGRATULATIONS on 26!!!...[sorry, behind on blogs]<br /><br />CONGRATULATIONS on 26!!!<br /><br />If your ex doesn't care that he's hurting you, doesn't he at least care that he's hurting the kids? Jerk.<br /><br />We love you!Joeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09238705965706714229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-4799505735189190322010-06-03T12:12:12.230-07:002010-06-03T12:12:12.230-07:0026lbs is awesome!!
I'm sorry about your ex. ...26lbs is awesome!!<br /><br />I'm sorry about your ex. It really sucks. Hopefully your lawyer can help you guys. Its probably hard on your husband to see you upset. I'm sure he's frustrated with the situation, not you.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210759567767466760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-53755544660654740852010-06-02T19:27:06.847-07:002010-06-02T19:27:06.847-07:00You are doing so great with the band. I am so hap...You are doing so great with the band. I am so happy for you. I'm sorry your ex is such an ass.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00603681230277050772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-5967407108819134872010-06-02T18:44:24.036-07:002010-06-02T18:44:24.036-07:00Congrats on the 26! Sorry about the mess with the ...Congrats on the 26! Sorry about the mess with the ex, hope things get sorted out quickly.Butterfly/Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16772725446286020704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-994073047247432042010-06-02T18:13:17.494-07:002010-06-02T18:13:17.494-07:00Wow, Tessie, that's a serious burden. I hope y...Wow, Tessie, that's a serious burden. I hope your attorney gets you through the legal stuff and your husband helps with the emotional support. Hang in there.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02242107654058014740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-41029061684008453732010-06-02T16:27:42.638-07:002010-06-02T16:27:42.638-07:00I'm so sorry Rosebud....but in a way all that ...I'm so sorry Rosebud....but in a way all that you went through made you the Rosebud I love today - strong and caring and beautiful inside and out. You will get through this - lean on us and your hubby. I wish you could never remember any of the pain and fear you felt back then...I'd take it away if I could. Love you!♥ Drazil ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/10177140029694038645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-40956575754304590552010-06-02T16:21:51.358-07:002010-06-02T16:21:51.358-07:00I'm with Gilly..."dickhead" is exact...I'm with Gilly..."dickhead" is exactly the word that came to my mind.<br />Oh Tesser...I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're doing the best and safest thing you can do in consulting an attorney.<br />Just stay strong on keep leaning on your "crew"...all of us.<br />Love yaCindylewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14540643788281963704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-43943981033259756082010-06-02T14:19:45.563-07:002010-06-02T14:19:45.563-07:00I am so sorry you are going through this Tess! He...I am so sorry you are going through this Tess! He is a piece of shit and fortunately or unfortunately, your boys see this and at some point, they are going to tell him to shove it up his ass! Hang in there honey, I will keep you in my prayers.Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03612121609893900847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-4474189176704519352010-06-02T14:13:33.049-07:002010-06-02T14:13:33.049-07:00Congrats on the weight lose to date.
Sorry that ...Congrats on the weight lose to date. <br /><br />Sorry that have all these dramas still with your ex. And I wish I had some great inspirational advice to get you though it. All I can say is that I hope everything works out and you get to spend you holiday as you want to and don't let him ruin all your great efforts.Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08059225189818297139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-27127529766703632822010-06-02T14:04:21.746-07:002010-06-02T14:04:21.746-07:00Wow...I am so sorry that your vacationis being thr...Wow...I am so sorry that your vacationis being threatened in this way and all that extra stress too. It is so hard to get away from people like this when you have to have contact for the kids. I have a girlfriend who is so strong and assertitve until it comes to her ex...like you she just reverts and gives in and won't cause any conflict even though she is right. They must love the power...I am not sure what the answer is but we can hold your hand through it. Good luck with the attorney!!! (((hugs)))Girl Bandithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10334455002394539268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-25434023916187207942010-06-02T13:18:24.956-07:002010-06-02T13:18:24.956-07:0026 lbs down... that is wonderful. I am right there...26 lbs down... that is wonderful. I am right there with ya, banded on March 20 and down 28lbs... yes there is a learning curve, especially after that first fill ;-)Barefoot Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11205954367003687428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-29899091941581294312010-06-02T10:09:39.424-07:002010-06-02T10:09:39.424-07:00I am so sorry you are having to deal with any of t...I am so sorry you are having to deal with any of this. What a butt!<br /><br />I think one of the keys is that he can only hurt you if you let him. And in this particular situation, court may be the only way through this. But what about, in the future, getting him to agree in writing to changes that are made. That way, when he does his stupid crap, it's documented that he agreed. Just a thought. And I know it doesn't help much for now. But save yourself in the future - protect yourself before he can hurt you.<br /><br />I'm just so sad to hear that you have to deal with any of this, as well as your husband and especially your kids. It's just sad.<br /><br />((hugs))LDswimshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16047339088972152520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-18086835434551419062010-06-02T09:34:48.949-07:002010-06-02T09:34:48.949-07:00Wow...he sounds like a real dickhead. Writing abo...Wow...he sounds like a real dickhead. Writing about it is better than eating...so do that instead! As my mother always says: this too shall pass. *hugs*Gillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06422010996986937582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-10708389855584472812010-06-02T09:30:04.766-07:002010-06-02T09:30:04.766-07:00OMG! You just wrote about my former husband! I m...OMG! You just wrote about my former husband! I mean almost identical and I was afraid of him just like you were. I was with him for 17 years too. I am finally going to a counselor about it because I will be seeing him this month after 6+ years he has been in prison. I am suffering from PTSD also. Girl, we will have to talk when I see you. I cannot wait! Great job in the weight loss!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-17475872506543196352010-06-02T09:21:59.472-07:002010-06-02T09:21:59.472-07:00Divorces and child wrangling is the worst. I'...Divorces and child wrangling is the worst. I'm not a hugger but here is one of those uncomfortable ones that only us non-huggy people can give :)...Feel better and don't let the jerk get at you through food!<br /><br />TinaTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16965135571189867376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-31261950051324603772010-06-02T09:15:15.099-07:002010-06-02T09:15:15.099-07:00That is a major drag! Are you going away for your...That is a major drag! Are you going away for your vacation for the dates he previously authorized? I'm sorry he is such a butt. I think your insight that he uses chaos and drama as a drug is really powerful, but he can only do it with your participation. I know it is easier said than done, but you have to distance yourself emotionally from his abuse. If you buy into his BS, then he wins!Amanda Kiskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035180757671095192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4385530608969677101.post-14373340004578675782010-06-02T08:56:43.323-07:002010-06-02T08:56:43.323-07:00I hope your attorney can help you sort through thi...I hope your attorney can help you sort through this mess. I'm sorry this is happening :(-Grace-https://www.blogger.com/profile/14777413585734523956noreply@blogger.com